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Get Your Kids to Ditch Their Phones With These 3 Proven Tactics (No Yelling Required)

January 31, 2024
Diane Almanzor
Diane Almanzor
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These days, a phone is like a Swiss Army knife for entertainment and social life. It's a go-to for chatting, scrolling, gaming, and just escaping the drag of everyday boredom. The pull is real and—let's face it—pretty strong.

Kids are glued to their phones for many reasons. They're keeping tabs on their friends, staying up-to-date with the latest TikTok trends, diving into games, or just binge-watching YouTube. 

There's always that FOMO—the fear of missing out—that is like a magnet drawing them back to check notifications or see if they've missed something on Instagram.

Mobile apps and games are like digital candy, designed to be addictive. Next to the constant buzz of a phone, real life can seem a tad dull.

But here's the kicker: too much phone time can throw a wrench in family time, mess with sleep, and even put a dent in social skills. There's this survey showing that a whopping 59% of parents think their teens are hooked on their smartphones. And guess what? About 44% of teens admit they're on their phones more than they should be.

This around-the-clock phone use isn't just a harmless habit. It can take a toll on mental health, leaving kids feeling lonely, not good enough, or just out of control. So, if you're looking to help your kids peel away from their screens and get a taste of the real world, here are three solid strategies to try out:

Set Clear Rules Around Phone Use

Sounds pretty formal, right? But really, it's about making some family-friendly agreements on when to give our smartphones a little time out. 

We're all a bit too attached to our screens, and it's important to make sure our phones aren't taking over family time or our peace of mind. So, let's break it down into some simple, doable examples:

  • No Phones at Dinner, Please: Mealtime is family time, right? So, phones are a no-go at the table. It’s the perfect moment to catch up with each other without distractions.
  • Bedroom Phone Curfew: How about no phones in the bedrooms after, say, 9 pm? This helps everyone wind down properly and ensures your kids aren't scrolling into the late hours.
  • Time Limits That Make Sense: Depending on how old your kids are, set daily phone limits. Maybe an hour a day for the little ones and a couple of hours for the teens. Just make sure everyone’s on the same page with these limits.
  • Tech to the Rescue: Use those parental controls on phones to keep tabs on app use, filter content, and even shut down the phone at certain times. Yes, your smartphone can actually help with this!
  • Designated No-Phone Zones: How about a phone-free zone in the family room or dining area? This encourages everyone to do stuff together without screens.
  • Practice What You Preach: Show your kids how it's done. Try to limit your own phone time, especially when you're around them.

Remember, it's all about teaching your kids to balance their tech use. Be consistent with these rules, but also be understanding—it's a change for everyone. Show them there's a whole world beyond those screens.

Get Them Moving

We're living in times where our couches have become our comfort zones and technology our constant companion. But here's the thing: moving our bodies is not just good for us; it's essential

So, when we say "get moving," we're really talking about swapping those static screen hours for something a bit more lively. Whether it's a quick dance-off in the living room, a family hike, or just playing catch in the backyard, it's all about making movement a fun and regular part of our day. 

This shift is crucial, not just for cutting down screen time but for keeping us all happy, healthy, and connected. To peel your kids away from their screens, here’s what you can do:

  • Team Up: Encourage your kids to join a soccer team or maybe a dance class. More than getting into a sport, they’ll learn teamwork and make friends, too.
  • Family Adventure Time: How about making those family walks or bike rides a regular thing? It’s like hitting two birds with one stone—bonding and staying fit.
  • Chore Time = Exercise Time: Yep, even chores count. Have them walk the dog or help in the garden. It’s a sneaky way to get them active and teach responsibility.
  • Be Their Role Model: Show them how it’s done. Go for a run together, or maybe shoot some hoops. They’re more likely to follow suit if they see you leading the way.

Staying active keeps the blues away, sharpens focus, and helps everyone sleep better. It will help you build a lifestyle that’s joyful and healthy.

Social Butterflies > Screen Zombies

Think about who your kid loves to hang out with and set up some chill time together. It could be anything—a cool playdate, a movie night, or even a day at the park. When they’re around their buddies, their phones won’t seem half as interesting.

How about some volunteering? It’s a double win—your kid gets to do some good and meet new people. Places like animal shelters or food banks often love having young volunteers. Plus, doing good feels good, often way better than just scrolling through apps.

And don’t forget about clubs and group activities. Whether your kid's into kicking a soccer ball around, coding their next big project, or painting a masterpiece, getting involved in a group thing can be a blast. 

Finding stuff they’re into and getting them to team up with others who share their interests is the key to making them less interested in screen time. Similarly, it’s important for parents to lead the way. Show them how it's done by keeping your phone tucked away when you’re doing fun stuff together.

Building Real Connections Over Digital Distractions

There you have it: three solid tactics to help your kids break up with their phones. It's not about being anti-tech; it's about being pro-life. Real life, that is. Where conversations happen face-to-face, fun is found outside apps, and being active isn't just for avatars.

So, set those ground rules, get everyone moving, and encourage real-world socializing. You're not just pulling them away from screens; you're guiding them towards experiences that shape and enrich them.

And if you're looking for a little help, check out Aro, a friendly coach in your corner, nudging your kids (gently) away from their screens and into the family fold. Give Aro a try and watch your family's screen habits change for the better.

Diane Almanzor
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